Karen, once again, is asking the hard questions. The questions that probably every ex-gay ministry should ask at the outset (but so few do). I think my answers to this question are pretty well-known (check out my personal favorite post called "My Hope" for the answers), but if you're someone who struggles with SSA -- whether involved in Exodus or not -- it would be awesome if you could go over to Karen's blog and take a stab at the questions she's asking in "What If You Don't Change?"
Till then, cheers everyone. I'm extremely busy this week so I'll be moderating comments but I can't say that I'll be responding to everyone like I normally try to do.